This is probably the most searched/asked question, so I thought to express my views on this. I will be discussing many topics which is beyond Facebook & Whatsapp !
1. Lack of Goal in Life
Whatever you do daily are the small steps which we take for achieving the long term goal. So if a student has still not decided the long term goal, he will not realize how important is a day in his life. each day is very important. each day brings you near to your goal. so, first step should be to think deep on what should be your long term goal. then i am sure you wont waste a single day, forget about attempts.
2. Bad Surrounding
90% person surround themselves with people they have been in the past because of friendship or relatives, etc. they never surround themselves with people they want to become. Always have some idol. some person whom you want to be. it will help you to motivate yourself to keep doing small things daily to become the person you want to be. Unfriendly people who do not add value to your future.
3. Social Events
People too much attach themselves to Social Events. Guys, you are a teenager. you are having least responsibilities to attend social events. You feel you are the most important person in the world. but fact is nobody knows you. if at all some people know you, that because of your father or family person. you don’t have individual identity. Believe me, you can say a simple NO to all social events. Its their work to force you to attend the event. but you have more important work i.e. to build your own Career/ Your Identity. So, my advice will be to say a BIG NO to all social events like Family Gatherings, Festivals like Diwali, Holi, Ganesh Chaturthi, Navratri, Marriage of Relatives/Friends, Birthday Parties, Success Parties, College Parties, etc. Give importance to yourself more than others. They need to understand, they have joined professional courses, which needs commitment & dedication. you have to get that skills which are required to become a professional. You cannot pass CA course by doing it in BCOM style. result will be same i.e. FAIL.
4. Small Works at Home/Shop
Don’t take much interest in these works. the more you will take interest, the more work you will get. Urgent work must be done once a while. but be clear that you are not interested in these works so that they should think 10 times to give you such work. No work is such that cannot be done by others. people can manage without you. its a fact. So avoid these distractions. You family will always support you in this provided you oppose this. If you are happy doing these things, they will never realize what loss it will cause to your future.
5. Over Partying:
Guys, Enjoyment is really necessary. but the question is when and how much. all successful people also have enjoyment but they know when and how much. Don’t make enjoyment the purpose of life. its ridiculous. You should think about the expectation of your parents towards you. There is no person in this universe who doesn’t enjoy. Everybody enjoys, but not at the expense of your career.
6. Lack of Awareness:
Many people are unaware of how much efforts they must put in for the course they are pursuing. Always talk to seniors. they will help you to plan your schedule properly. Many people fail because they give efforts equal to BCOM and they are appearing for CA Course. You have to match the level of efforts, for that you must have idea how much efforts are required. Give your 100%.
7. Lack of Planning:
Students study, no doubt about that. but question is how they study. they study as per their convenience and not as per the requirement. you have to respect the course you are pursing and plan your studies accordingly. Planning is must for proper execution. If you don’t plan, you will never know how much loss you do to your career by wasting every single day. Every day counts and contributes. Always plan.
8. Carefree Attitude:
Students who have rich parents, tend to be carefree, because they have options, they have no pressure from their family. Its difficult for them to motivate themselves. they are happy to be know by their fathers identity even after marriage. they must build their own identity, even better than their family members. do something different on your own. You live only Once.
9. Social Media (Facebook/Whatsapp/Instagram)
Last but not the least. Social networks. Social Networks never builds your career, never builds your identity. Only your work will make your identity and help secure your and your family’s future. Limit your use of Social Networks. Do some work. Your beauty is not of any use unless you are a model or an actor.
Students please note these are my personal views. you must be having contradictory views. keep it to yourself, I am not interested in that. Have a Good day !